My husband and I have been married for 5 years, even though we have no kids yet our bond is stronger than concrete cement.
I am a 34 year old woman and my husband is 38, I and my husband have been friends since childhood, we’ve known ourselves for more than 20 years. He loves me and I can’t do without him.
Months ago an infidelity scandal broke out on the internet concerning Davido and how he impregnated a side chick despite the fact that he was a married man. and how we all love the way he cherish his relationship with his wife.
I, my husband and some of my husband’s good friends whom we consider as family friends were having fun, drinking, discussing, joking and having a nice time and dinning together in our home. During this moment I brought up the issue and said what Davido did was wrong. He’s a married man and a celebrity, therefore he should respect himself and shouldn’t be impregnating single girls anyhow.
My husband responded that “any lady who have a loyal and a loving husband, should worship the ground on which the husband walks” and I responded GOD FORBID, like you are not doing me a favour by being faithful to me; It’s your legal responsibility to be faithful to your partner.
And Tony a family friend responded “” What would you do, if you catches your husband with another lady”? I replied OVER MY DEATH BODY “. And immediately all his friends redirected their gaze to him. Looking at him surprisingly like I’m challenging him.
My husband asked “WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU SAW ME CHEATING? I replied not while we are still living under the same roof.
My husband took this as a challenge and waited till his friends left our home.
When the party was over, visitors gone to their various a-boards, and now remaining just my husband and I. He came to me and said now I want to see your reaction after you see the pictures and videos of me with another girl in my hotel room.
In his words “”I’M GOING TO RESPECT OUR MATRIMONIAL HOME AND BED BUT FEEL FREE TO COME WATCH MY PORN IN THE HOTEL.
It was 07:00 pm in the evening, my husband called his manager/Assistant at work ordering him to arrange a lady and book a hotel room for him in my presence, I was devastated, Confused and Heartbroken. After 30 minutes the manager called him and said everything was said.
My husband left home immediately after about 2 and half hours, he sent me his nudes and videos of what went down with him and the lady.
It was like my heart was uprooted out from me, I had an attack immediately, I couldn’t even breathe well, I have not suspected him of infidelity, he cared and showed me love, I’ve never felt insecure with him. He is my hope, my joy, the reason why I’m happy in life is because of him. How could he do this to me.
Though I know all his friends were womanisers even though they are all married, I thought my husband was different amongst them but they are all birds of same feather.
By 10:30 pm same night, I couldn’t rest nor think straight so I packed some of my stuffs in a hand-luggage and left our home to be with my girlfriend.
He came back home later that night and never bordered to call me. Since then we have not talked and I’m going crazy.
I miss my husband, I miss my home. Should I swallow my pride and go back to him? Or I should move on with my life.
Please your opinion is needed.
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